Q: My stepson refuses to work nor does he seem to want to. He continues to take advantage of his mother and she just keeps on giving. Food, clothing, room and board. I got a friend of mine to offer the ungrateful kid a job that he turned down. I'm sick of watching his mother do everything for him. I would love to give her an ultimatum but I don't have a job and rely on her myself. How do I get him to start acting his age and take some responsibility?