Q: There's a guy and we have been on and off constantly. I love him so much but he doesn't love me. Recently we have been trying to get back together. He wants to take things slow, which is fine, but there's something missing. He's not very emotional and he claims he's shy and has anxiety. Shouldn’t there be more of a connection after a year? What kind of guideline should there be if we want to make this successful? I'm 19 and he is 24.