Ministers back colleague at Pa. same-sex ceremony

Church spokesman refused comment on whether the 50 will face discipline
Associated Press
Nov 10, 2013


About 50 ministers gave their symbolic support to a colleague facing sanctions from the United Methodist Church by participating in a same-sex wedding.

The wedding Saturday in Philadelphia was held about a week before the Rev. Frank Schaefer of Lebanon, about 90 miles to the west, will face a church trial for officiating over his son's marriage to another man.

The clergy filled the front of the Arch Street United Methodist Church, blessing the marriage in defiance of church law, the Philadelphia Inquirer reported.

The closest rested their hands on the couple, Bill Gatewood and Rick Taylor. The others placed their palms on other clergy.

"Those whom God has joined together, let no one put asunder," they said in unison.

A spokesman for the church's eastern Pennsylvania conference would not comment about whether any of the participants may face discipline. Most of the 50 are Methodist ministers.

Taylor, 55, and Gatewood, 70, told the newspaper that all they ever wanted was a traditional wedding — with a blessing in front of the altar, an exchange of vows and a reception in the basement.

The event was largely symbolic, as same-sex marriage is not legally recognized in Pennsylvania.

The couple, who met in a Philadelphia gay bar, have been together for 25 years. They said the church has helped them through some difficult times.

The Arch Street congregation, which is committed to the inclusion of people of all sexual orientations, had ministers who consoled them, added the names of their sick friends to the church's prayer lists and performed funerals when their friends died.

"That's why we want to get married in our church. We have many, many people who say, Why don't you just go to New York or Delaware?" Taylor told the newspaper. "And it's because we live in Pennsylvania and our church home is here and it means the world to us."

Schaefer, 51, could be suspended, reprimanded or lose his credentials because he performed a wedding ceremony for his son in 2007 in Massachusetts. He had informed his superiors about it beforehand and did not face any consequences until April, when a congregant filed a complaint.

The United Methodist Church formally accepts gay and lesbian members but teaches that homosexuality is not compatible with Christian teaching.

Schaefer's trial will begin Nov. 18 at a Methodist retreat in Spring City, about 35 miles northwest of Philadelphia. He could avoid trial by agreeing not to perform another same-sex marriage, but he has decided not to do that. Three of his four children are gay.



thinkagain's picture

Aren’t we fortunate to have the chief advocate for all things lewd and lascivious, bring us these daily reminders of man’s hatred toward his Creator?

Home Town

I do not have any thing against gay people , but having gays in my family and my wifes son being gay , I have found out no matter how good that you treat them , the first time that you do not agree with them they think that you hate them. And that is not true , I treat all of the gay family good and I have never asked them to change for me , but some of them sure do try to push there values on you. And the first time that you do not go along with them they get upset and do not want to come over to the house any more. And it is causing problems between my wife and I , it is not good enough that I treat him and his partner great , but there are some things that I will not except , and now I'm a bad guy. So I do not know what to do anymore , but I do know one thing for sure I will not let these two guys destroy my wife and I. I have not asked them to change so do not ask me to change.