Secret Santas in Erie County brighten holidays

Christmas spirit is alive and well in Erie County although it doesn’t always come with a name tag.
Emil Whitis
Dec 30, 2012
Two women from two different towns got a little help this year from anonymous sources. Now they’re trying to figure out who to thank. 

Alice Ashburn, a Perkins Township newspaper carrier, opened up her mailbox on Dec. 6 and pulled out a letter with no return address. 

She opened it and read. 

“Hi Alice, I know you have had difficult times in your life over the last several years,” the letter begins. “You are incredibly strong and your hard work has not gone unnoticed. Even though we can not control what happens to us, we can control how we respond. Just remember that everything happens for a reason.” 

The letter was signed “Santa.” 

Tucked behind the letter was a $500 cashier’s check from PNC bank with no name. 

Ashburn was skeptical. She’d heard plenty of stories about people getting bad checks in the mail. 

But when Ashburn asked bank tellers they told her it was good. 

She broke down and cried. 

“I was shocked that someone thought of me,” Ashburn said. “I want to know who it is so I can thank them.” 

She wrote a letter of her own. 

“Thank you so very much to the kind, caring person who surprised me with an anonymous donation this holiday season,” Ashburn wrote. “I...was overwhelmed by the unsolicited act of generosity. It is great to know that there are still caring people out there.” 

Kristine Snyder, a retired nurse living in Castalia, lost her daughter Dawn Gaspar to cancer in October. Since then she’s taken custody of her 10-year-old granddaughter Faith Gaspar. 

Dawn didn’t have life insurance so the funeral left Snyder broke. 

As Christmas approached Snyder had about $3 in her checking account — not even enough to buy a tree. 

Then, about a week before Christmas she got a call from her bank. Employees there said they needed to talk about her bank account so she drove in. 

At the bank, tellers told Snyder someone had deposited $100 in her account. 

The next day she got another call. This time it was a $50 gift card to Walmart. 

On Christmas Eve there was a third call.

Employees handed over two gift cards totaling $90, two bags stuffed with presents, several sacks of groceries and a small tin. They told her to be especially careful with the tin. 

When Snyder got home she sat down on the couch and opened it. Inside was $1,000 in cash. 

“I started crying and yelling,” she said. “If anybody had been in my house they’d have thought I was nuts.” 

Snyder called it a true “Christmas miracle.” 

“You see this stuff all the time in books and movies but I’ve always had bad luck,” she said. “It’s still hard not having (Dawn) here but being able to give my granddaughter a Christmas makes it a little better.” 

Snyder said she doesn’t know anybody with that kind of money. 

“I would really like to be able to thank them in person,” she said. “I would like to whole-heartedly thank them with everything in my being.”

Both Ashburn and Snyder said they used the bulk of the money to catch up on bills. 

Ashburn is the mother of Aaron Richardson a former Bowling Green State University football player who died in 2004 during practice.

 

Comments

donutshopguy

There are many more Secret Santas that roam our streets during this time of year and throughout the year. Most don't want any attention or recognition.

I know it makes a great feel good story but please let the keep their anonymous stature and leave it at that.

Kelly

Wonderful! I hope they keep printng stories like this every chance they get.

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2cents

Philanthropy, a great thing :)

pptrsha

god bless

KURTje

Doing right anywhere never goes out of style. hint..have a friend give $10.00 to a single mom pumping her gas, that gives her a small boost

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2cents

I messed with an Ohio Tpk. toll booth gal on Christmas day. I have the Easy-Pass, but drove through the attended booth instead, giving her a $10, she kept trying to respond, you have the Easy-Pass, you have the Pass, she never looked down to see that it was not the Tpk. Ticket stub; I wished her a Merry Christmas and was out of there before she ever noticed. It was funny!

donutshopguy

kURTje,

It's not the amount that's important. It's the act of helping without reward. Don't make this only a holiday situation. It's just as rewarding throughout the year. Pass it on.

donutshopguy

Over the years, I have made it a habit to help someone everyday. It doesn't have to be restricted to money. Open a door. Help someone carry their groceries. Shovel a neighbor's walk or driveway.

The good people can take this city, state or country back. It takes a commitment. It takes work. Pass it on.

KURTje

no kiddin d.nut (i roll) geez.....soundin like winnie here

underthebridge

Amen! What great stories. And good for you donutshopguy, for being helpful. I find that it is rare.

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2cents

Most of it comes from the way you were raised (U) The Golden Rule!

donutshopguy

I don't donate to my church, the united way or other charitable organizations. My donation of time, effort and money are personal and focused on my community. I don't need an organization directing my beliefs. Again, it's personal responsibility. Pass it on.

donutshopguy

Off my soapbox for the remainder of the year.

I wish you all a healthy new year.